This post has much to do with the person we are and grow up to be and less with who we might blame for our shortcomings and circumstances. And the author is actually Paul in 1Collosians 3:1-23 and not me ...
So, here goes:
Hey guys, now that you have grown in Christ and realized your worth in Him, I speak to you differently
And I, brothers, was not able to speak to you as to spiritual ones but as to fleshly, as to babes in Messiah.